Well, if I were you I would tell him as ...

MelissaP - September 2nd, 2006 1:21 PM
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Well, if I were you I would tell him as soon as you can. He is going to need time to absorb the news and think about things.Maybe you could approach him like "Remeber the last time we had sex.?......well, i'm pregnant. I thought I should tell you because 1) You are the father and 2)I want to give you time to absorb the news and think things through" Then go on to tell him what you need or (don't need) from him and explain your plans. I would leave it at that, give him a number to best reach you and tell him to call after he has thought things through. Then it will be up to him to contact you.If he doesn't want to be involved... he'll still need to pay child support to help you raise the baby. Good luck and let me know how everything goes.

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