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I feel so sad for you. That is an awful situation to be in. I hate that men still have the upper hand when it comes to ow women are treated. Here all of us are pregnant and or single moms and many of us have tragic stories to share. as for your question regarding a rape case.... YES it was definatly rape and Yes he should have to pay for however I do think the case would be hard to prove, but you could however use the rape and the threats he has made against you and the baby to get a restraining order on him and then if he continues to bother you, you can use the restraining order to put him in jail. For the sake of your baby's safety and your own, you owe it to yourself to take some tyoe of action against him. Men like him must be stopped before they commit further assaults on women. I have been in a date rape situation before and I regret not pressing charges on the guy. Somehow being young and stupid I found a way to blame myself for putting myself in a stupid situation that resulted in me being forced to have intercourse. Thankfully I did not get pregnant or any stds from him but it certainly left a mark on my trust and my pride. I wish you the best. Also as for being a single mom, it really is not so bad. I have a two year old and a 2 month old. Their father left me for a woman who is 11 years older than him when I was 5 months pregnant. Yes it can be hard especially when you are pregnant but the happiness, love and joy a child brings makes all the hard times worth while. Krrp your head up, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.

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