I myself am considering the same thing. My son's dad has shown almost no interest in this child and has been very cruel to me just to be cruel. I am lucky enough that I can take care of this child on my own it will not be easy but I know I can do it so I really don't need him. The only thing I struggle about is what I am going to tell my son when he is older about his father. Its one thing to say well your father chose not to be in your life but its another thing to say I chose for him not to be in your life. The other thing is I know if I do allow him in my childs life it will be nothing but a constant struggle between him and I and that can't be good for our son either. I'm hoping he just decides not to want to be in my son's life that way I do not have to be the one to make that decision.
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