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grandpa viv stephie was asking for people's advice on the situation, whether she wants to build the trust back or not is entirely her decision. the facts however speak for themselves and it was the facts i used upon which i based my view of the matter. i personally do not believe she should be running after this kind of guy, no we do not know if he cheated on her sexually (but then it doesnt take a rocket scientist to get a fair idea of what cheater's intentions tend to be, and its not 'shall we have a coffee and walk in the park'). i found the comment you made to be pretty useless, but then we are all different. the way i viewed it was that you were trying to tell her to 'fight' for him, a guy who has obviously misplaced her trust to such an extent that she is in turmoil over it. why would 'fighting' for a guy who gives her little respect get her anywhere, in short - it won't. he will view her as weak and use her over and over again until she wakes up and uses her inner strength to leave him. i have known several men who have cheated on their partners and nobody would suspect them to be the 'cheating kind'. every cheater is different, they do not go about things the same way nor act in the same way. if i was to bet i would say that he probably has been intimate with this other woman, a guy sending dirty messages and photos is a fair hint that he is after one thing! the best thing stephie can do is take time out for herself and to discover the truth, not to try and woo him back into bed or 'fight' for him.

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