bitterness aside MJM06 you have to think about what the future holds. you don't want your son/daughter to end up resenting mommy because mommy never let them have a father in their life. there is no doubt the guy is an absolute rat for what he has done to you and his new gf is pathetic for staying with him - he must have her that weak that she can't see herself with a better man. if you didnt find out the paternity you would be forever wondering and your child deserves the right to know who her/his father is. you do not know at this stage what he has to offer the baby if the baby is his, try to keep an open mind about it and tell him you will discuss it further once the test results come back. thee are a lot worse men out there who don't deserve to be fathers for all sorts of horrific reasons, is your ex one of those men?
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