we got married new years eve, dec 31 2006.. i moved in with him into his home a week later.. and 4 months later i moved back into my own home. and i have been on my own ever since with my kids... he has 3 kids of his own living with him full time.. and we just seemed to clash from day one of the new living arrangements... all of a sudden all the kids went from having their own rooms to have to share.. my kids have their own tv and stereos and sony playstations etc etc and his kids have nothing.. all of a sudden they were expecting that i get them the same things. and hubby just assumed that i would now become full time mum to 6 kids whilst he did nothing.. my day started at 6am and finished at about 1 am.. his day was go to work and sit on his arse waiting for his dinner to be served etc etc... i dont think he wanted a wife but more so a house keeper and a nanny and cook.. to make his life easier... it took a few months to get back on a friendly basis.. and for the past year things have gone pretty smoothly. we both work all week and we spend our weekends together just as we did before we got married.. but now iv'e had enough. he thinks that i am going to spend my weekends looking after him whilst he sits on the couch watching football etc... i think i am just being used again. he does nothing in the way of house work all week and waits for me to arrive on a friday night so i can get into it... but i want a baby i have my heart set on another baby.. it is all i think about 24/7.. i know i can do it on my own... i was a single mum with 3 kids 6-4 and 1.. now they are 17, 15 and 11...
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