you know what i get for child support for 3 kids... $38.97 a month not even quite 40 dollars, for an entire month... so no i have never thought about having kids for money.. and my hubby aint that great a guy... from the moment he opens his eyes or even before his eyes are open his mouth is wrapped around a bong... smoking dopeand come 4.30every afternoon he is sucking down cans... so much so that most of the time his kids don't go to school cos he has no money for bus fare.. when i met him he and all the kids were sleeping on mattresses on the floor, no couch, no dining table.. no washing machine etc etc and their fridge was an eski.. i went out and purchased the kids all brand new beds and bedding etc gave them a couch, dining table buffet fridge wall units and filled his kitchen with everything you can think of.. i work all week to keep him whilst he drinks or smokes all his money. anyway thats totally beside the point i was trying to make... the urge to have a baby is so strong... even though i want to get out of the marriage i still want to get pregnant first.. and he knows this.. he thinks that if i get PG it will make things better... he thinks that if i'm PG i will move back in again and stay home doing all the house work etc... and then he can claim for dependents to ease HIS money worries.
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