i do not want to live with him.. i am quite happy in my own home with my 3 boys.. and i am stable with my work, my mortgage is nearly paid off. my boys don't see their dad more than 3 times a year. and they are the ones that made it that way. their dad only lives 20 mins away. what drew me to my hubby was ,, the "i can save you" instinct. that want to help you, mothering quality most women have. i saved him alright. into thousands of dollars out of my own pocket, only to have him expect more and more and him do less and less. why shouldnt i get what i want out of this nightmare. for once. he admits when his kids were little he never bathed them or changed a nappy once.. never gave them a bottle.. i dont want anything from him, money wise or help wise. i dont need it..
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