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ok can anyone help me figure this one out?
I am 31. I dated the father of my baby several years ago and we broke up. We were very young and it was over a decade ago. We reunited onlineand met in person about 3 months ago and guess what??? I m 3 months pregnant. The kicker is after we had sex twice and I started shying away from him feeling like he just wasnt the one for me but now that Im pregnant I feel like I should give him a chance and try to get to know him better. Meanwhile when I shyed away I stopped returning his calls and started giving him the cold shoulder, This ismy first baby and I had terribble moring sickness during this time as well. when I found out I was pregnant I told him right away. His response was he was gonna be there for the baby and wanted to date and have a relationship. It has been 1 MONTH AND HALF since I have told him I was pregnant. Weve talked on the phone a couple of times and all he says is he cares for me and the baby and wants to work thungs out but has made no effort to see me or check on me in fact I have called him several times and he dosnt return my calls. I dont know what to do. On top of this he has 3 kids from a previous relationship. He seees his kids every other weekend. And did tell me he had mixed feeings about having another child. I dont know whether to wait to see if he comes around once the childs born or just move onto avoid a rollercoaster of emotion

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