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Hey girls (jules and Miris).. I feel like you guys are telling MY story!! :) I am also 26 years old, had a casual relationship with a guy that I worked with since July. He also happened to be in a relationship. We started casually talking and going out, and finally on his BDay in August, we had sex for the first time and I found out in October (as well) that I was expecting a baby. All the while that he was in the relationship, he swore that things were not working out and that he wanted to be with me. He told me that if the situation ever escalated to me getting pregnant, than we would move in together and be together. Once that actually happened, he then started feeling emotions of guilt toward his ex (who has since broken up with him for other reasons). He tells me know that his main focus is to get back together with her even though he knows I am almost 4 months pregnant. He ALSO says that he cannot be there 100% because his priority is getting back together with his ex, but he can be there for a portion of the time??!!! He is a total a**hole, continues to party with friends on the weekends, and even though he is 35 and should be of the maturity level to know that his responsibilities are different, he continues his life as a bachelor. He basically plays mind games and tells me he is "in" some days, and others days his actions speak differently. I know that I should just make the decision that I am not going to depend on this person to be reliable, and to fully prepare myself to be strong and both mentally and financially secure on my own. I also don't want to get into the sticky mess of the courts. He just has a way of "woo-ing" girls, and if I really think about it, I'm sure I am not the only girl that he is dating right now. Hey Miris, are you from San Diego?

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