by possession do you mean drug possession, or is he a possessive type of guy (possessive of you)?
you need to tell them eventually so they can expect a paternity test after you have the baby. you can wait but things only get more stressful. waiting for things to calm down is a fallacy - there's always something new to deal with. the only reason to wait, if i were you, would be in case i lost the baby. but i wouldn't hold my breath. i'd set a date by which to tell - ie x weeks or end of first trimester or whatever. don't let this hover over you - its added stress. get it over with and move onto the next problem.
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