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okay...what is it with this Therapy thing??? Maybe it's an American thing? I don't know. But this site is not for American's only. Everyone on this planet has issues...NOBODY is perfect! So does EVERYONE go and see a therapist because they made mistakes or they made an in error in judgment?? The girl is not in denial about what she did wrong! So why rush everyone to therapy Iona? Maybe it worked for you in the past, but some people get very offended by that suggestion when it comes from someone that doesn't know you. So i think you need to be careful how you keep throwing it out there! Just because she mentioned having a bad father figure, now you think you know the whole situation and she should see someone??? How do you get to that conclusion so fast? it's amazing....
Anyway i think you should be careful because most of the women that are on this forum are already emotionally vulnerable so suggestions like that hit a little harder than usual and can be interpreted in a wrong way...It's one thing to tell someone that you have been in the same situation and therapy helped you and it's another to tell someone that it seems they have hidden issues because their father was a druggy and they should see a therapist. Doctors (maybe even close friends and family) are supposed to advise people to seek therapy...not strangers!
I think some of you on this "single and pregnant" forum are a bit too judgemental and come on here for the wrong reasons. I wonder if you are even single and pregnant?? I have left this websites forum because it doesn't help. All it seems to be is just a reminder of how messed up it is being a single and pregnant...I already know that! I don't come on here to have that thrown back in my face everytime i seek understanding. If you'd like candice95567 check out babyfit dot com. The women there a much more understanding and you'll probably find someone in the same boat as you that you can talk to!
That's just my 2 cents...

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