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It is really honestly up to you,just look at the pros and cons of everything. I understand not wanting a bad father around, i am kind of in a similar boat, everybody says a "child needs one", but i guess that depends on a lot of factors,like who the mother is,if the child has other men in their life,how well you deal with the stress of doing it on your own etc. I don't know if you have other kids but as a single mom of one, sometimes i do get pretty stressed out and i am a pretty patient loving woman. i always wanted a child ever since i was a little girl and i still find it to get quite stressful. If you had the father around you would take off quite a bit of stress and you'd be less likely to show your anger to your l.o. I still think i am doing a very good job for being a single parent, i mean i don't hit her or anything but sometimes you just want to throw the baby out the window,lol. On the other hand he does lead a negative lifestyle and i understand all of that, my dd's father is the same way. He isn't even paying support,he claims he " can't afford it",he still sees her about once every month or 2. That's something else to consider is that you would be getting money from him,which is a real positive. if you don't have a lot of support from other people it can be hard financially. GL

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