Well its a tough situation because if yo...

Mercyluvbebe - February 28th, 2009 11:35 AM
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Well its a tough situation because if you look at things from his point of view things were unexpected and as he mentioined he wasnt expecting a 4th child.But the positive thing is that he hasnt been negative about your pregnancy and thats a good thing.He's probably just a little in shock and is re-grouping and will probably come around if you give him time.Now if I look at things from your point of view its also not fair and Im sure you'd love to have a supportive person by your side...especially through the morning sickness and of course through all the other changes that you'll encounter throughout your pregnancy.I think you should give him space...tell him that you cant keep calling and chasing him around...and if he wants to be apart of your life and the baby's life he has to think hard about it and only when he is 100% sure of what he's doing to call you and let you know.
Maybe send him a picture or two of your ultrasounds and let him see them and think about them....
he'll come around,he's be crazy not to.

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