If you are going to have a child, you ar...

Grandpa Viv - April 25th, 2009 7:30 PM
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If you are going to have a child, you are at the right age, father committed or no. A live sperm donor is more fun than a tube in the frig. I would not even count it a mistake. Don't push for him to be closely involved. Let that work out in due course. If you play it right he will realize you are part of his genetic destiny. If you are presently friends with the wife, you could choose to play dumb on who is the father, and continue to be part of their circle - not conventional advice, I know, but stranger things have happened. Good luck!


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