You have my sympathy. The government pol...

Grandpa Viv - May 9th, 2009 6:31 PM
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You have my sympathy. The government policies in China make your situation even more complicated. From what we know, terminating the pregnancy would have been so easy, yet you chose otherwise. Maybe the authorities will not allow you to proceed once they learn of it!

Perhaps you are in the forefront of a generation of women who will confront this event with bravery and make it more acceptable. You are obviously very capable in spite of your lack of formal education. Yes, your colleagues will talk, and when the time comes to tell your co-workers, your best plan may be to share your dilemma, ask their advice, let them learn the emotions that have taken you down this path. At least half of them will sympathize. In other countries, women like you have consciously chosen to have their children without having to put up with a man cluttering up their lives. I wish you well.


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