i won't lie,it is very hard work doing this on your own! Before I had my dd, i thought oh this will be a piece of cake, i don't know why i thought that. Then in the early months the father and i broke up, very difficult. But depending who you are, you may end up regreting it a lot down the road,if you get an abortion or anything. It does get easier as they grow up though. My daughters 18 months now and i've gotten the hang of doing it on my own, you just have to remember leave a lot of things until later on and that your baby comes first. I feel the same way that it is more ideal for 2 parents to raise a child but i couldn't do it with him,he's not even paying support for her and hasn't ever. i so wish it was different, i consider going back but everytime he talks to me i just get angry. Just make sure to be safer next time around. You can also have some time to find a real daddy for her :)
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