Hey Mama Bear, You were right to go to ...

vigster - April 20th, 2005 6:48 PM
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Hey Mama Bear, You were right to go to his parents and his wife. The baby is most important right now, and has the right to know her/his grandparents, step mom, etc. The wife's decision to leave is soley her decision, and frankly, I believe if it were not you who broke the news to her, the next woman would have. His parents ought to be pissed at him - he's a married man afterall! But if he's threatening to hurt himself that's his own psychological issue. There's nothing you or anyone can do. I've seen men use this kind of b.s. as a cry for help. He did wrong, now he wants sympathy. You should pity him, not feel bad for him. He needs more than anyone can offer him right now - and that's his own self confidence. And not to be accusatory - but what are you doing dating a cheating man!?! You deserve better than that! Best of luck to you and congratulations on your gift!


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