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dew,
i am really so sorry to hear about what you are going through. I feel for you about your mother, I was addicted to drugs for most of my adolescence and into my late teens,,,, and i was with a man who was as well. so i know how it is for both sides....to wonder when you will get the call saying theyre dead...and to be the one who is controlled by something that robs you of a life. I am okay now and 3 months along in my pregnancy. In regards to your mother, I am no therapist, but from my experience all you can do is love her and hope she is okay. Pray, even if you dont believe,,,, and in my case, i had to detach from the person who was the drug user in my life,,,as painful as it was. You are so strong to have dealt with these situations in your life....so it seems to me that you will be just fine. I know it sucks though....my family had disowned me wehn they found out im pregnant,,,, i have been clean for years and they still think i am incapable of doing anything right. Meanwhile......the father of the child has left me and said "its not his"......gee...thats original. I know your lonliness and your pain. I too, have no one. But you know what.......you do have one person right there every minute of everyday.....and that is your baby. You know what i do to help myself through hard times.....i have started a journal where i write to my baby. I write all of the things i want to say....and i dont feel so alone. You will make it through....... keep your head up.

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