Hey girls...sorry we have been totally b...

smmom2 - May 31st, 2009 11:48 PM
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Hey girls...sorry we have been totally busy with more landscaping this weekend and Lexi has her ballet recital tomorrow...so life is crazy. But I have been reading up on you all. CREATING...good news is....there is sugar free and fat free icecream and frozen yogurt that you can eat ( and make shakes with)!!!! I am glad baby and you are doing well !!! MINI...I am so very sorry for your loss. The answer is it is different for every single woman. But..most women are told by their OBGYN's to wait atleast to FULL and REGULAR af's ( or cycles) before ttc again. The reason for this is to ensure that the lining of your uterus is thick enough to ensure a healthy pg again. Especially after a d & c. I lost my baby at 12 1/2 weeks ( baby died at 12 weeks ) and had a d&c done, I then got pg again 2 cycles later ( and yes it totally sucked waiting those cycles) and now I have a very healthy 9 month old baby. SO it is possible for you to go on. And no one here can predict whether or not you could lose another baby. All you can do is take every precaution from here on out. STACY....I am glad you checked in. I am sorry you are still struggling...that is so hard. I wish I could just pick a baby and hand it to youalready healthy and strong. Like i said...hang in there....A friend of mine that used to be on here just got pg again...and is actually like 16 weeks now. BUT....she has been pg 4 times...lost every single one of them....and went to an RE...was told she basically was as healthy as can be but her eggs were going through menopause and that she could never have her own kids. Then....she got a second opinion..and none of that was true. She did get pg again...it just took a very long time...she went through this for years also...I have met many friends on here that have been down the road you are on and they have all ended up with babies so far....all healthy ( after many years and even loses later). So really....keep thinking that you will hold your angel someday !!! I know it is hard for you to read on here abotu pg;s and kids...that is why I dont talk abotu mine much...I had my healthy baby...but I stay here and talk to you all because when I found this site...it helped me through a very dark time in my life. And I never would have gottent hrough it without the help of my ladies on here ( and yes I still have tough times about my lost child ). I remain here because if I can help even just one of you...then my life will be better for it. I want to help those people who feel my pain, give back to those in need like the women that were there for me in the time of mine !! And one day...you will be able to do the same !! Hang in there girl..you will get there !! LISA]...You have me all worried again...where in the world are you???????? All my other girls...PLEASE check in !!!


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