Jody, i know what you mean about your other friends. two of mine got pregnant without trying. one has already delivered, and the other is due in two months. they just say that it sucks and can't offer much more. my best friend told me she was pg the day when i had to tell her i lost mine. that was bad. i tried to be happy for her, but it was hard, that was the first one. we had always talked about being pg together, and it didn't happen. but now i have some experience and knowledge on what to expect so that's a good thing. the other positive thing is at least we lost them before they were born, instead of having them around and losing them after a few months of knowing them. i think of that, and it seems to help. the docs said that even if they could've saved mine, that it wouldn't have been normal, and my body was just getting rid of an abnormal embryo. well, at least we get to stay skinny for a little while longer!! ;)
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