Daniella we will be married a year in August, but we've been together since July of 04 and known each other since 2 yrs before that. We talked about it last night and he admitted that he has felt old and unattractive lately. This baby will be his 3rd child, our 2nd together. He's 26 and going bald and sd that lately I haven't had enough time for him, so he just went on these sites to get a reaction I'm guessing to make him feel better about himself. I told him that that is not an excuse, and that I really don't need this right now. However, I want this marriage to work, so I'm calling a babysitter tonight and we're going out together. I told him if things don't get any better that I want us to go to counseling, that if he wants to make this marriage work we both have to try. I'm leaving to visit my parents tomorrow, so I told him to take this time and think about what he wants to do.
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