To the person who wrote to everyone,...

chicks - February 7th, 2005 10:33 AM
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To the person who wrote to everyone,
Good advice but could have been said a little gentler. People like myself who are trying to have a baby have waited for this time in our lives for years. I myself have not stressed about having a baby but I do want it incredibly badly. You don't know how frustrating it is when you know your own body and you know when something is different/not right and there is no explanation for it but it is affecting your fertility. I have never in my 15 years of having a period, missed one. I have now missed 4 in a row. I haven't had a period since October. We just decided to stop with the condoms and start trying. There was no stress involved. So, explain to me how stress can stop you from having a period when there has been no stress? I have not been more relaxed as what I am now. Financially we're good, we own a home and are managing quite nicely with a big chunk in the bank. So, my point is that people come on this board to discuss their issues with other people that may be in the same boat and try to make themselves feel better just by reading other people's posts and know that they are not going crazy, that it's possible that others have gone through the same problems. Pregnancy symptoms are very similar to period symptoms so it can get a little confusing. That's all that people are doing here and I don't blame them, I do it to.. All that we ask on this board is to please be understanding about our situations and try to understand what we're all going through.. Thanks!


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