Steffie, I know it basically SUCK...

wannalil1 - December 13th, 2008 5:11 PM
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Steffie,
I know it basically SUCKS. We got the news only about a week and a half ago and to be honest it has been HARD. BUT, here is the thing. I decided not to ruin the rest of my pregnancy. I have done sooooo much research spoken to many many drs. and all agree that as an isolated finiding it means next to nothing. Regardless, no one can guarentee you a healthy baby without invasive diagnostic testing (CVS or amnio). So you need to have faith. I am slowly getting out from under the depression and trust that my baby is healthy. My first instinct after they told us about the EIF was that my baby was fine and then doubt crept in and I started questioning whether I was just scared or whether it was intuition. And the more I thought about it the more I knew it was not intuition. So what I guess I am trying to say is that it will be a long 4 months but I trust that my previous testing is right and that my doctors are correct and that she is perfect in every way!


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