Hi Steffie92s- I used to shy away from the baby talk as well b/c I didn't want people to ask too many questions. They'd always ask what we were hoping for, boy or girl (at the time I didn't know it was a girl and told people we didn't care what it was) and then they'd inevitably say the dreaded "it doesn't matter what you're having as long as it's healthy." I wanted to ask, well, what if it isn't healthy, isn't that ok too?? But I never did say it and I'm glad I didn't. It was just the stress making me emotional. I can honestly tell you that after months of dealing with it, I am much better now. I happily talk about my baby girl (I am also now so obviously pregnant there's no hiding the fact I'm having a baby). I was worried about my baby shower and wondered if I could enjoy it and now that I recently had it I can tell you it was a blast. Remember, the odds really are on your side. These numbers are scary but they're just numbers. And when you see the ultrasounds with your baby, you will realize that all is good. No matter what happens these beautiful babies are a gift. A real gift!
Merry Christmas to all of you. I will be wishing for peace of mind for us all and healthy babies.
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