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Yes, I am. You are right, it seems he has borderline personality disorder. Very hard to deal with. He is the father of my son, though, and I love him very much. We are seeing a therapist and he is on his best behavior now. I know the ups and downs will be a constant, but at least now I know why and somewhat how to deal with it. But what a hard time I had during pregnancy because of him...:( It was supposed to be the time of my life, as I was so looking forward to have a baby and I was so happy to be pregnant. But everybody around me was so supportive, colleagues, friends, family, and so many nice people I met in the streets, in the stores -- I learned something I had no idea existed -- the sisterhood of motherhood -- lots of strangers I met around treating me better than my fiance, caring for me, worrying about me. Every age, men and women, they would look at my belly and start sharing their stories, their experiences, their happiness, their pain of having a child. It was an awesome experience to be pregnant and live through this. I guess all bad come with good so we can handle the problems we face. What I did not get from my fiance I got from everybody else. Now, I don't feel I need him, and now he is the one who comes around.

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