As an adoptive mother, I can tell you I am eternally grateful to my son's birthmother for the courageous choice she made to birth my son and make an adoption plan for him. I know that she only had his best interest at heart and it was done completely out of love. Alot of people are out of touch with correct adoption language. This is a shame because the children will think they were less loved which is quite the opposite. They were more loved. There is a wonderful website "bethanydotorg" that has a birthparents forum. I can't imagine how hard this decision must be for you but please know that there are plenty of us adoptive parents that really "get it". Best of luck to you.
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