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I am not a mom yet as my bun is still cooking, however, I am a special needs teacher who works primarily with children who have DS.

Always remember that they are people first not a syndrome.

Keep being optimistic and try to be realistic. These folks are still kids and they pull all they stunts you pulled when you were a kid. Treat your child like a regular kid as much as possible. It is OK to have high expectations just as long as you are realistic. Be flexible and and set boundaries. Kiddos with DS need structure, all kids do.

Get your child involved in occupational, physical and speech therapies ASAP. Speech adn LAguage disorders have been linked to negative behaviors according to some researchers.

These kiddos, with DS, are my favorites. Do not believe the myths that they are all affectioante or all stubborn. It's not true. They have very distinct personalites as the rest of the world's population.

Many artist from the 16th century paitned cherubs with DS features. As you baby grows you will, in my opinion, continue to see cherubic features in your little bundle of joy.

In terms of eduacation, early interention is essential. Children with DS can learn, it just takes a little longer. Research shows that the continue to learn well into there adult lives. Be active in you child's education. If you have concerns talk to the teachers and /or therapist. They may be able to help. Be a active member of your child's IEP team. When you child is about 4 yrs of age he/she will be eligible for a public education as per the IDEA (individuals witt Disabilites Education Act)Act. An IEP is a plan of action to help your child to grow acidemically, socially, emotioanlly as well as provide service such as speech/language and OT/PT.

I can only image how you feel. However ther are tons of resources and great books of there. Lining With Down Syndrome by Sue Buckely is a great read and may be inspiring for you. It was for me. It have exceprts from adults living with DS and there thoughts and feeling about it all.

Remeber they are people too. They have thoughts feeling, wants and needs.


Best wishes to you and your family on your new adventure.

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