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Answer: is he refusing to have sex bc he is afraid of getting pregnant or what?

I can relate. I am 32, my husband is 35. We agreed that we would wait 2 more years to have kids because of financial concerns. But recently, like the past year, my bio clock is ticking out of control and I want to start trying now. I told him this and he said that when we are making a certain amount of money, he can't argue it because that's his only concern. When I did the math, we were already there, with more than enough money to have a baby, even twins. He then backed down saying that he was tired when he'd said that and he wants to wait one year to start trying. He admitted that it wasn't about the money, but obviously he has fears about his life changing and feels that he'd be resentful if we started now. He feels we had originally agreed to that and that he doesn't want to be "bullied" or manipulated and wants to go a day w/out talking about it!! I don't want to drive him crazy, I want to have a child w/ someone who is excited about it, but all I think about every day is having a baby!!! Am I crazy? 2 friends are having babies this month and I feel jealous which I hate!!!!!! HeLP!

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