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I read all the above posts and it's filled with so much pain, my heart breaks. I want to say what Jesus would probably say, "Go forth and sin no more." Most of the women on this post regret what they have done and feel shame, loss and guilt. They don't feel this because the pro-lifers are harping on them..they feel like that because the Holy Spirit is touching their consciences. I just wish that every girl and woman who is planning to get an abortion would visit this post and see what she will experience after the ab. This is the kind of stuff that the abortionists don't tell women. One of my dearest friends also had an AB before she became Christian and she tells me exactly what all these women have said. She told me that not a day goes by that she doesn't think of her ab baby. And the other child that she did give birth too, does not stop the regret.
For all these women, there are only two ways to go. Accept Jesus Christ and his forgiveness and sin no more, or become bitter and angry and hardened. Also, you all must understand that what you are feeling is perfectly normal. You have a healthy conscience. Think of it like going through the death of a loved one. Only in this case, you are guilty also and need repentence to gain peace in your heart. (For those who want to write back and tell me that I am insensitive, don't bother. A person doesn't feel guilty if he/she didn't do something wrong.) I only repeat what these posters said. All of you now have an excellent opportunity to go out and tell young and older women of your experiences. You will meet people who are angry at what you have done and they may say things to you that will hurt. I just want you to know that they hurt for you and your babies so much that sometimes it seems that they want you to suffer the guilt and pain all your life. That's not really what they want. They just want you to admit that abortion is wrong and that it's never justified. I assure you that they are well meaning people. It sometimes seems like they just want to bring up your pain. Just as much as you want these people to understand you and your pain, that's how much they want you to understand their point of view.
I wish you all the best. May God help you see how to gain peace and how to minister to those who will be in tough situations in the future.

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