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...and another thing you should not abort your baby if your heart is telling you NO. If you want it you will learn to love it and appreciate it despite the fact that it was born from a hurtful sistuation. Just because your baby's father was a rapist does not mean it will be, if you nurture it right and steer it in the right direction it will have a happy life. Just stay strong and make sure any decision you make about your pregnancy is because you want to make. I too have had people tell me i should abort mine, I didn't get raped but i'm still in high school and people judge me for that. Just because your baby was born out of rape does not mean that you should abort, only make that decision if you are sure it is what YOU and nobody else wants to do. You can always give up for adoption later on if it proves way too hard to raise that baby. There are open adoption agencies that will let you meet the parents before making final decisions and will even let you still see it sometimes.

As for the rest of you being hella judgemental telling her what to do and not consoling her but basically reprimending her for wanting to keep her unborn child, you are so pathetic! She has a mother who possesses the right to tell her child what to do and will help her work things out whatever choice she makes. You don't need to be mean and be all bitchy to her if she doesn't want to do what YOU think is right. You don't know what moral or religious beliefs she has and you don't know her heart so wuit shoving some crap in her face just because your baby was born/conceived under better circumstances or because you believe her child will grow up to be a rapit. Unless you are a genetic scientist or a therapist you don't know jack about what that baby will turn out to be...

As for you KellyAnn do what you feel is right. I would suggest going to a therapist for counseling about the rape because even if it is not hitting you now, the emotional damage rape can cause can last a lifetime. I know how much it hurts cause i was raped once and it made me feel so used and dirty, but i hope you never think that because you were raped it makes yuo unworthy of being a mother. If things prove very difficult to cope with go to someone who you trust, you have your boyfriend so plz take care of yourself and that baby....

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