Hey Kellyann, I was recently in t...

Sweetcakes - January 3rd, 2005 8:15 PM
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Hey Kellyann,
I was recently in the same boat as you and i did not have the support of my family, luckily for you you have your boyfriend. Go to school for as long as it is possible to hide the pregnancy if you are not sure how others will react. Loose sweaters and stuff work like magic.! You are an amazing person and no one deserves to be raped! Stay strong because the road ahead will not be easy. Your baby will be a constant reminder of what happened. I am not trying to worry or scare you but i know what it is like. If you are not able to keep the baby (lack of family support/ financial stuff) you should consider adoption! I know it is the hardest thing to do when you have had the little guy kicking around in your stomach but some people never get the chance to have kids. There are lots of open adoption opportunities. Be aware of your options and make sure whatever the decision that you make is yours, don't let anyone make it for you even your boyfriend. You are an amazing person and the road ahead will be difficult but you can do it!! Chin up! I did it too and although i am 16 i still needed my chance to be a kid i wasn't ready to be a mother and i knew i couldn't give my baby the home that he needed. I was kicked out of my house for deciding to not have an abortion so hopefully your family will come around! Love you tons girl, Good luck!


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