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people she is 13 ...raped....what part of this tells anyone who has been preg or trying to be preg. young or old is good. And i mean preg anyway (raped or not) she needs help emotionally and also needs to deal with the hard cold facts about all things in this decision. disease included. Listen to your mother there is a reason you have one and I hope she is doing something for your emotional well being. Have you reported this to anyone if you don't he will do it to someone else. Your b/f is sweet but you two are living in la la land if you think this is going to be easy. Continue school your education is your best tool in life. And you will get somewhere in life with more education and a strong will. Make this person pay for what he did. and i hope noone continues to give you the advice that you will be doing fine later at 14 and having no job , a screaming baby and wanting to go out. and also (lets hope not) no education. It isn't easy and I won't sugar coat it for you, you need to learn to make the toughest decision of your _young life. and I would never wish that on anyone, sit down and go over all your options with your mom and b/f . write down plusses and minuses (and i bet you have more minuses) and do it in an adult way. And the most important thing here is you, you are worthy of what ever decision you make and get help because you have been through something so tramatic that it might come back to you later in your life. either decision you make, you need to put yourself first. and feel good about you before you can raise a child. Take care

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