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Eww... Sex should never be casual! It not only loses all meaning, makes you lose your self-respect, it's crazy mentally unhealthy for both of you. If he's a sex addict tell him to back off or you'll tie his pecker in a knot. You know how messed up your situation is, right? Your 14, you want a baby, your boyfriend obviously doesn't... he just wants to bone you all day and you're suspended from school for god knows what, damaging your education... What the hell are your parents doing? Do they even know you exist or do they just not care?? Alright, alright... I'm probably being harsh. It's a touchy subject for me. You can never respect your body if you have casual sex and he'll never respect yours either. Sex addict... that's disgusting. He's gotta earn it! *sigh* I was in your position once and it was a stupid ass thing to do. If you ask me my advice... stop having sex altogether. He may not even want to be with you for any other reason. Tell him "I just don't want to have sex anymore, I realized I wasn't ready." and see how he reacts. If his reaction is anything but "okay, I respect that." he's a stupid asshole and you should kick him to the curb. There is no long term relationship going on if sex is such a big factor in it. Haven't you heard? Sex gets old when you have it too much. You get bored of the person you're doing it with all the time every day. That's why so many long-term married couples do it like... once a month maybe? And looking at older couples... a few times a year. If you make sex special, it IS special. It is a lasting, special, love-filled act that's 800,000,000,000 times better than it being just because.



Seriously... I know you won't really get this because you're young, you'll probably disagree, or even if you do agree you won't do anything about it. But... your kinda messing up your future.

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