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Kiersten, your input was very much appreciated. It calmed me down, at least for the moment. I seem to be living moment to moment since I found out. I never intended to get pregnant at such an age, rather I would have preferred it be a bit later in life as I am enrolling for fall semester at the college the fiancee works at. I am convinced that he doesn't want to destroy the life we made, even if it was far from planned, rather he's terrified of failing. Mind you he is Italian, thus once he has set him mind set to a decision or a way of thinking he is most stubborn to relinquish it. Your story is very encouraging. My job isn't exactly the greatest but I at least have insurance through them which is a plus. If I have to I will seek out a second source of employment or seek out a job that will give me more hours and perhaps a better pay. Before anything drastic is scheduled, I am making a doctors appointment. I am hoping that something, anything will change his mind. You are right, the male instinct is to fix EVERYTHING, sometimes even things that aren't always broken. Sometimes I would swear that he lives on the male instinct. He's a great man, I'm just not certain how to get through to him or how to even get him to listen to anything other than "Yes, I'll schedule the abortion." This is hurting him so much. I've never seen so much pain in his eyes, but he's convinced there is no other way...

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