My advice is to try and enjoy your pregn...

Floricica - May 31st, 2009 9:14 AM
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My advice is to try and enjoy your pregnancy and enjoy having the baby. I know its confusing and crazy feeling, but you said the father is almost done his phd so I wouldnt worry. Save any extra money that you can before the baby is born. And try and breast feed instead of formula. Formula is expensive. I had my son amonth before I turned 19 and now hes two and half and I am so happy that I had him. Every mother runs into problems with their children. It's not always just financial that stands for problems. It's a part of having a child. Your creating a human. A very complex mamal. You will enjoy so many things about being a mom. At first it may be overwelming because of waking up every 3-4 hours, but you really do get use to it. You get into it. I dont even need to sleep extra hours. I dont need naps and I became a clock of 7am. But it doesnt bother me. I dont feel like crap. Also, you can learn so many things as being a mom. I learned how to cook the most random foods. I learned so many things about sicknessess and developement. It's really interesting and a lot of fun. It happened because it's suppose to happen. Just enjoy what's to come. Oh, and no you wont feel pregnant for a few months, unless u get heavy morning sickness(which wont last forever). But once your half way through you will feel good trust me. It's so much fun to pick names, buy baby stuff. Read the waht to expect books and go to your doctors appointments. They need to take blood tests and to check things out on the regular so that you know ur baby is ok and everything. But yeah plz just enjoy it. You will get into it trust me. It's really not that bad. Yes it is hard at times, but we're human! It's natural to have a child.


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