Hey! Well... I am the girl that filled the spot. I was 18 just like you and I really wanted to have a baby at the time. So I met a guy and I got pregnant. To my surprise, the guy didnt leave and i'm still with him. Now my son it two n half. So the story? well to make it short. It was hard as hell untill I made it into college. I was on assistance and I was using food banks. It was so expensive and I was not financially stable. I finished highschool before my son was born, but I did it while I was pregnant. But yeah It was very hard untill I got my student loan. Once I got the student loan, I was able to afford everything. I still have another year of school. But hey it's really hard to have a child. Most of my friends left because they were and still are in the party scene. A child is so much work you have no idea. When he was born I had to have a c-section so it was really painful after. even breast feeding can be very painful. So if your up for makeing a lot of sacrifices and you have all the time in the world to dedicate to your child, then well. Have one. But remember when you have no money and your baby needs something, its the most craziest feeling ever. I borrowed a lot of money to survive. But anyways hopefully this helped a little bit with your decisions.
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