cate and tara. You are both two very strong and brave women! I admire you both.It is giving me the courage i need to think about going through it all again. I told my husband i didn't know whether or not i could do it. But only now am i realizing......Of course I can! and I will. It's just part of what we must do as women. My son asked me the other day "why boys cannot have babies?" I told him (after careful consideration) that if it were only up to boys to have babies - their would be alot less babies because it hurts to much.(he didn't realize i was referring to emotional pain, not only physical.) He said - " ya mommy, your right." Heck, my husband even agrees w/ me their. Not that he's not going through an awful lot as well. I hope you are both blessed w/ supportive husbands. I sure am. cate- I'm reallt glad you had such encouraging news. they should be able to give you an u/s soon. tara - I know your still waiting, but try to stay busy to help the time pass by a bit easier.(if your up to it) I tried everything! shopping(for stuff I didn't need), cooking and baking( ironically because I couldn't eat), and if I was alone in my house-I just turned up the radio and tried to sing along. Sounds silly. but I was determined to just get to the next day w/out losing my mind. Keep your chin's up girls! your both doing everything you can and as you said tara- it's in God's hands and if it's meant to be.......You know the rest.
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