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Thank you all,it has been very tough lately especially when you think you are the only person going through this.I am 19 weeks pregnant and it is my second pregnancy, my first child is 18 months. On the 1st of feb, my family and I went away on holiday to visit my parents and two days later I was admitted at the nearest hospital for light bleeding, everything seemed well, I was discharged two days later and given some antibiotics to prevent any infections and the baby was ok.A day after coming back home I had extreme bleeding for 3 days, I rushed to emergency and again cervix was fine, baby was fine ,nothing showed on the scan. However 2 days after ,while having my antenatal check and after constant complaint of my slight bleeding, they found a hematoma underneath the placenta.The baby doesnt seem to be affected by it but I hate living in constant fear.I am not bleeding much and it seems to be old brown blood.I hate it when the doctor says "there is no guarantees,if it is not meant to be then it is not meant to be", well it is true but some of us need hope.For the working mums out there you shouldn't feel guilty because with my first child I worked and after my first child was born,I became a stay at home mum.I am still on bed rest and have had alot of help from husband, friends and maid but still it hasn't really made much difference.So I have made peace with myself and decided to have a positive attitude. Good luck to everyone and God bless.

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