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just had a m/c at 16 weeks two weeks ago. My doctor said it was becuase of the three fibroids she found, one as big as a lemon. to be honest im a little jealous of those who got to have their babies with fibroids. i dont understand why i couldnt have mine. this whole experience is horrible. I had to give labor to her. before that i felt her water break, knowing what comes next is horrible . knowing your water is broken and there is nothing you or anyone can do about it. having to wait it out till i started labor pains. which wouldnt start on its own. they had to shove these pilles up my cervix in order to help me go into labour. the first one didnt work, but the second one did. all i kept saying was no no no no they told me to stop holding on and to push. that was the most horrible feeling to have to push your dead baby out and there was nothing you could do about it. im so angry. i cant help but think if this was caught sooner what would have happend? could they have put me on bed rest? and save my baby???? the mistake was the first doctors appt i went to at 4 weeks. this place told me to go to this clinic. which i didnt know it was a clinic at the time. till i got there...but i didnt want to wait more weeks to go to another doc and not know what was going on so i stayed there and had them examine me. first he checked and was like oh..you feel like 7-8 weeks. then did the u/s and was like nope your only four weeks cause he only saw a yolk sack. so i went on to find the doctor that was supposedly good that my husbands co-worker recommended. when i finally got to see this doc. i was 12 weeks. he only did a doppler to hear the heart beat because the last doc alread did the u/s he told me i look like im about 14-15 weeks. i told him that was funny cause the last doc told me i looked bigger also but said that i was only 4 weeks by my u/s. he said hhmm..and sent me on my way to come back in four weeks. the day before i was suppose to see the doc the m/c happend...i only can think what if i didnt get up to make dinner? what if i tried not to cough...if i just held out one more day my baby would still be here. when i went to the ER my doc came and they told me baby was fine there was a heart beat but i have three fibroids and asked if the doctor i saw before him said anything. i said no...he said..hmm....well the next day my water broke and so on. warn everyone you know that is preg. that if their doctor says hey your a littler bigger then usual or if anyone says that, get it checked out. no mater what they say make them look deeper. if you feel weird at all....pains at all get it checked out. i think your paranoia is worth your babies life.

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