Erin, I am so sorry to hear about your l...

Shelby - September 22nd, 2005 10:05 PM
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Erin, I am so sorry to hear about your loss! I know there's very little I can say at this point, to comfort or encourage you, but try not to lose faith. I am 38 years old and am 10 weeks pregnant. I realize that at any moment I could find myself in the same situation. I, too, have miscarried in the past and absolutely hated it when someone would suggest to me that it was "GOD's will". That's just a bunch of crap. Don't ever let anyone tell you any different. GOD would never will anything bad to happen to us. Sometimes, things just happen for no reason at all. It's the way we deal with those things that ultimately end up teaching us a lot about ourselves and who we are. I lost my little sister last year and thought that I would never recover nor did I want to, but as time went on I began to look at life so differently and came to realize how fragile and precious each one of us really are. I notice that I don't take things for granted the way I used to. This is just an example. What I'm really trying to say is that it's possible to draw strength from these tragedies, instead of allowing it to get the better of us to the point where we're willing to just give up. Don't ever give up or allow yourself to feel defeated by today's circumstances, because tomorrow is a new day and with each new day there is new hope. Continue taking folic acid and B12 and I would even recommend Goji juice if you have not tried it and whatever you do... DON"T GIVE UP!!!


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