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Hi
First of all congratulations on the birth. Your problem is very common and i would suggest that you don't listen to what was good for your friends. Firstly because this really only gets you down more and secondly every single person is different. The first thing would be to make sure you keep your husband involved by talking to him. If you don't talk to him then he will start feeling like its something he is doing and it only makes things worse.
Next I would concentrate on the intimacy and the romance side of things. This will eventually get you back on track. If you both go out for a nice quiet romantic dinner together alone and just talk you will find that you will both feel instantly closer. Finish the night with cuddles and kisses. Make sure your husband is on the same wave length as you and that he doesn't pressure you. As long as he knows you are trying to get back into again he wont have a problem. I would suggest going out together once a week if not then once every 2 weeks. Also if you are not already try exercising daily. 20min is all you need. You will find that this will give you more energy and make sure you eat healthy.
Hope some of this helps. Good luck

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