Really Concerned Can Someone Please Help Me

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Jodie86 - May 4

I told a friend at work about my pregnancy, and i think she's told my boss. His been really horrible to me lately, and I'm worried his trying to terminate my position before i do anything about it. I'm thinking of telling him today (i'm only 8 weeks) and getting him to sign something to say he knows about my pregnancy, as he doesn't have to tell hr until i'm past my 3 month stage! Going by his normal self, i just know his trying to come up with something to get me sacked before my pregnancy becomes public knowledge and denies ever knowing anything!!! Do you think i'm being paranoid? Do you think it's a good idea to get him to sign that? If he refuses, i have another trick up my sleave. I just don't know what to do???? Anyone? I'm so worried, i just want to do right by my baby!!!


Been There - May 4

I'm an HR professional. I'm usually the first person to know because the women come to me after they pee on the stick and see two lines. LOL! But seriously, why are you waiting for your boss to tell HR. It's really not his place to do so as he should not be discussing your health with anyone. You don't need him to sign anything and I've never heard of a manager being asked to do that. So I have a few questions for you. How long have you been employed there? How big is the company? Why would you a__sume he'd want to get rid of you just because you're pregnant? Are you sure it's not just a coincidence that he's acting a little different. You don't need a trick up your sleeve. Just your HR person. Go tell yourself and let him/her know of your concerns. If they know their job, you'll be just fine. You'll need to get information from the HR person anyway regarding leave, so go get that information now. By the way, who made up the rule in your company about managers telling HR and when? That should not be their place.



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