Am I Too Young

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Mrs.Ceaser - January 5

I first got pregnant in april of '07 but at 2 months I lost the baby.I had just turned 18.But as scared as I was to become a mother, I really wanted to have my baby and it hurt so much when I lost it. Now I'm married and my husband wants to try again.I'm in a difficult spot because I still have that desire to have a child but at the same time I'm not so sure that I'm ready since I'm still young.

 

Hopeful3 - January 7

If you are not 100% sure that you are ready for a baby, I would suggest that you wait. Also, I think you need to talk to your husband about your concerns. I am sure he will understand. I agree that you are still young, but that does not mean that you can't (or won't) be a good parent. On the other hand, since you are still young, there is no need to "rush" a baby if you are not sure that is what you want. You and your husband should really talk it out and decide together what is best for your family. Best of luck to both of you, and I hope everything goes well for you, whatever you decide.

 

sarah87 - January 11

I think u said it yourself 'your not sure' listen to your gut instinct, obviously you want kids but maybe right now is not the time. You have plenty of time for them give yourself a few years and im sure you will definately know what you want to do.. your partner should understand ..maybe you could compromise ..maybe try in 2 years? good luckxxxx

 

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