Pregnant And Have A 4 Month Old Looking For Advice

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LG33 - April 16

I have a 4 month old who I am br___tfeeding. I just took a pregnancy test b/c I started feeling the "morning sickness" and the test was positive. I am a little freaked because we didnt plan on getting pregnant this soon. We have been using protection but not consistently, here I thought we would never get pregnant so fast. Is anyone else in the same boat? Or has anyone had children this close together? Any advice? Thanks! - Lindsay


Jamie - April 17

A friend of mine got pregnant with a 3 month old; however, she wasn't b___stfeeding. The first thing I would do is find a lactation consultant, to find out how this pregnancy will affect your milk supply.


HannahBaby - April 17

My mom got pregnant for my brother when i was 4 months old (same exact situation as you) She said that it was the hardest pregnancy (she had 3 of us this was her last) She wanted to have 4 but decided not to after this pregnancy. It was hard being pregnant and carrying around an infant all the time. I have a 15 month old and am 14 weeks pregnant, and its rought either way.... I think the 2nd pregnancy is always harder because you have another person to take care of 24/7. Good luck!! and Congrats!


Susan W - April 17

The biggest problem I would worry about is supply. I have a 19 month old, and I'm 12 weeks into another pregnancy, and it has whacked my supply. It really started to drop when I was about 5-6 weeks. If your baby doesn't seem to be getting enough or is always hungry, you may end up supplementing. Most of their nutrition for the first year should come from b___stmilk or formula, not solids (so trying to start those early isn't going to help you. The first year is basically practice food.) Good luck!


Happy Mom - April 17

Try or they will be better at accurate info than me. Sorry I'm no help and good luck!


Ginny - April 17

Oh, wow! COngratulations, Lindsay. I hope everything works out OK. My mom's best friend had three boys, each a year apart, and they were all playmates growing up. So even though I've never done it, it seemed like a pretty positive thing in their lives.



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