Not Sure Now If I Ve Done The Right Thing

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cara - April 25

I am 9 wks pregnant and feel awful. My husband and i decided to try for our first 6 mths after getting married. I miscarried in dec 04 but wasn't to upset and now we're pregnant again and i keep wishing it would go away as I don't think i can do this. I feel i should have done more before this pregnancy but its too late now. It feels like my life is over! Is anyone else out there feeling like this? We know we want a family but I'm not sure anymore! Please help.

 

babyonborad - April 25

Hi...I am not in exactly the same situation ,but feel somewhat the same. We have been together for almost 5 years and though this wasn't a planned pregnancy it was recieved happily. I can't help now but think ,what if i miss out on opportunt_tes..have i travelled enough?developed my career enough?are we financially stable?etc etc. It is perfectly normal to feel all sorts of, often very strong anxieties as this is one of the biggest changes to your life you will encouter. Please don't think your life is over, myself and my boyfriend have felt this a few times recently but come round to knowing it is just a new chapter, and one that will be infifnitly more rewarding than say a girly holiday or a night out on the town. I Imagine for us a lot will stay the same, we don't care to go out partying so often anyway, and a quiet drrink in the garden of your local or meal in a restaurant can easily be done with a baby in tow. I am close to you inpregnacncy stage, now just over 10 weeks...so i am sure there will be a roller coaster ahead, but try not to worry and remember you will always have support. things will never be the fairytale ideal you might imagine...

 

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