Has Anyone Ever Had To Have Their Baby Adopted

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Wannaknow - April 26

If you've had to hand your baby over to strangers because you couldn't face abortion and were not in a position to care for it yourself, how did it make you feel? Do you think you made the right decision?

 

CC - April 27

Well, I've never done that before, but I'm sure that it feels 100 times better giving it up for adoption than killing it.........I would suggest to ANYONE that if they do not want their child, put it up for adoption...don't abort it...give it a chance to live.

 

Jbear - April 27

The woman I work for had 3 children that she put up for adoption. They weren't infants. She was in an abusive relationship and feared for her life and her children's lives, so she left her husband. Soon afterward, she became very ill. She had to be hospitalized for several months, and then she wasn't sure that she would be able to work enough to provide for her three kids. She had no one to care for them while she was hospitalized, and no savings. She gave them up for adoption, but she made sure somehow that they would all go to the same family. She's still terribly sad about it...20 years later...but I'm sure the kids were better provided for than they would have been if she had kept them. My brother-in-law was adopted, and he had every advantage a kid could have.

 

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