Help Need Advise Should I Tell Him Or Not

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desi - May 10

I don't know what to do. I just found out I am pregnant again. Oct.30 I delivered a 26week old baby, who died. I got on depo and recently switched back to micronor. Now I am pregnant i didn't even know I started ovulating again. I am scared to tell my boyfriend who is so overwhelmed with bills. Also, i am scared that I will lose this baby as well although the doctors couldn't figure out why I went into labor early before.Do you have any advice on what I should do next?


tiffani~edd 11/07/05 - May 10

I'm sorry for your loss. I really do think you should tell your boyfriend. It would be deceitful, dishonest, and unfair not to. It's his child too.


nhb - May 10

I agree w/ tiffani to definitely let him know.


~kat~ - May 10

i agree witth tiffani aswell,im also sorry to hear of your loss.


e - May 10

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I understand the stress of an unexpected pregnancy, I am going through the same thing right now. I would tell him though so that you can support one another through this. I believe that everything happens for a reason and there is a reason for this. It might be hard but it will be worth it.


Maleficent - May 10

i'd definatly tell him. it's his baby too and you will need each others support.


Jenn.... - May 10

Of course you should tell him, it's his baby isn't it!!? I think he would figure it out eventually anyways. And like others have said you will need each others support. Just sit him down for dinner one night and let it out, tell him you are as shocked as he is. I am sure you can both turn this into a positive and exciting time in your life. Take it easy! Good luck!!!


juliana - May 10

I am very very sorry for your loss and I may be asking the wrong don't have to answer..but I am corious to know why did you have an early labor? I freak out when I hear about this..just thinking it could happen to me.


crystal - May 11

i think that you should definitely let your boyfriend know. What would happen when you start to show? He may feel like you left him out, and trust would become a big issue.



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