How Does This Happen Now

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notnow - May 31

My husband desperatly wanted to have a 4th child this year. In January I toyed with the idea. He took me off the pill. Then after lots of arguements and I got a promotion at work I decided that a 4th was not something I wanted to do again at this time in my life. He disagreed and became the hot topic of lots of heated discussions. Since January we have been using condoms everytime. Then at the end of March I started feeling nautious. I blew it off as the flu. I awoke the beginning of April with a feeling I was knocked up. Took the kids to school bought a test, came out positive, cried. Went to doctor confirmed that I was prego. I asked about conception date. My first day of lmp was March 1st (i kept a calendar). I am a 28day cycle. The week of the 7th we went to a party and I got pretty tipsy so I was worried about the alcohol affects. He said based on dates he would say the 16th of Mar. Which happened to be the romantic night my husband planned at a bed and breakfast. I made him leave and buy protection. He thought that would be the magical night. I didn't plan on it. I feel like how does magicaly that month the condom fails after other months of use? And is that really my date of conception? Do I keep accusing my husband of sabotage?

 

LILMAMA - May 31

MY LMP WAS MARCH 1ST ALSO. I AM ABOUT 10 WEEKS. HOW FAR ALONG ARE YOU? I OVULATED LATER THEN I THOUGHT.

 

notnow - May 31

As of this day based on my lmp I am 13 weeks. The ultrasound said conception was the week before but my doctor said he wasn't changing the conception date. He said due date was 12/7/06. I hope that the u/s was off because the week before was when I drank. Which happens like once or twice a year. But still have worries.

 

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