I Don T Want An Abortion Help

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Christine - May 3

i just found out i'm pregnant and have a HUGE dilemma! There is 8 days between partners... and the 1st partner was in the very beginning of my cycle... still had low temperatures on my BBT chart. The 2nd partner was mid cycle right around my spike in temperature. I also had a blood test done and my HCG level was only 17 this was on friday. My dr. said to me "you are newly" pregnant. But with my sonogram she just said that i was "less than 5 weeks" because all they saw was an empty sac. yesterday my blood test HCG level was 52. I'm soooo confused. and no i can't talk to the guy that matters about what i have done. i sooooo don't want to get an abortion. but if i can't determine the father i feel like i may have to. help!!!

 

TehProgamer - May 3

even if im not the doctor, im almost 100% sure that the father is the one who u had s_x with in the mid of ur cycle. Also, when u are ovulating (or close to the ovulation period) your body temp increases to a level where it is the highest. also, dont get an abortion, he/she doesnt have to pay for the mistakes you (and ur partner) have done. if it's the case of rape and incest then i think it's justifiable, but if it's because of lust then it is not... for me that is...

 

chritine - May 3

no...it was pure stupidity. will a sonogram determine who it is?

 

TehProgamer - May 3

NO, dna testing or wait for a few years and determine on who the baby looks like will do it, but i guess we dont have the time and money to do it, ask a doctor instead

 

Christine - May 3

i've been told a sonogram can determine how many weeks you're pregnant... that would tell me.

 

Christine - May 3

between the time of cycle, the low HCG levels the fact that the sonogram only showed a sac, no baby yet all make me hopeful. has this happened to anyone else? please share...

 

Christine - May 3

i just got this off of web MD -Fetal ultrasound usually can confirm pregnancy 6 to 7 weeks after the woman's last menstrual period. -Fetal ultrasound can be done to predict a woman's due date and estimate the age of the fetus. -If fetal ultrasound is done during the 7th to 14th week of pregnancy, the age of the fetus can usually be determined to within 5 days. -From the 14th to the 26th week of pregnancy, ultrasound to determine the age is usually accurate to within 7 to 14 days. -After the 26th week of pregnancy, ultrasound becomes less accurate at determining the age of the fetus. -Fetal growth rates are checked by comparing the size of the fetus's head, limbs, and body with standard tables.

 

pr - July 4

can u determind the s_x of a child before you get an abortion? if you are 7 weeks

 

to pr - July 4

Why would you want to do that?!

 

June - July 4

Well after reading your post I must say that I am speechless....I can not believe that you are actually contemplating to get an abortion because you dont know who the father of the baby is-WTF-regardless of who the father is that baby did not ask to be here and you are the one that chose to spread your legs and not take any prevent_tive measures so now you should deal with it-are you married? was this an affair? I just dont get it, dont get an abortion because of this reason you will regret it later on, I can understand some situations, but this, no...the way I see it is if your woman enough to spread your legs than be woman enough to take care of that baby inside of you...you will be glad you did..

 

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